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Having an honest, upfront relationship where communication is key will help to avoid the concern of a cheating partner. However sometimes even the best of intentions become difficult to carry out and you may end up at some point in your relationship questioning your partners commitment to you. People who have affairs are extremely cautious and very careful regarding their actions making it notably difficult to tell if they are being faithful. If you have a partner who has cheated on you before or was cheating with you on their previous partner there has already been a pattern established here and the probability of them having an affair is much higher. Your gut instinct is usually correct. If you feel something is not right then investigate further by reading the clues mentioned below.
1. They work unusual hours or lots of overtime. Their pay stub does not reflect this.
2. They stay up late or get up after you are in bed to be on the PC.
3. You notice all the email, including the trash bin, is constantly being deleted.
4. The phone bill has unexplained charges or is now paid online by your partner.
5. You often receive wrong number phone calls by someone of the opposite sex.
6. Your partner becomes unable to reach at times.
7. They become more unavailable at the office re: meetings, lunches.
8. Partners co-workers seem awkward or uncomfortable around you. (They usually know)
9. They have a new cell phone but insist the number is used strictly for business.
10. Their clothes smell of unfamiliar perfume or cologne.
11. They take a sudden interest in helping with the laundry.
12. Their mood is irritable and they tend to get angry easily.
13. Your partner often whispers on the phone or hangs up if you are close.
14. You find birth control pills and your partner has had a vasectomy.
15. You find condoms and you are on the pill.
16. Your partner stops confiding in you.
17. If you confront them about having an affair they become aggressive and overly defensive.
18. All intimacy is gone. You no longer share kisses, hugs or say “I love you”
19. They act and behave in a guilty manner.
20. They frequently call to say they will be late.
21. More time is spent on personal appearance.
22. You find new underwear or lingerie they have yet to use.
23. They join a gym or start an exercise program.
24. You stop having sex together or they want to explore more sexual positions.
25. Sex does not last as long but is more frequent. They tend not to reach orgasm or fake it.
26. They have unexplained scratches or marks on their back, neck or chest.
27. Excuses are made such as snoring to sleep in a different room.
28. They will pick a fight over something small as an excuse to get out for a while.
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